A Life Stitched with Love
Virginia Eileen Rogers was born in Kokomo, Indiana, on February 5, 1942, at St. Joseph Memorial Hospital. The daughter of Clifton Earl Simmons and Mary Alice Harris, she came into this world weighing 6 lbs. 11 oz. and left footprints not only on paper, but on the hearts of everyone blessed to know her.
From playful days and childhood wonder to graceful girlhood
These were the days that bloomed beneath her bare feet.
It was a warm August day in 1958, and Virginia — barely sixteen and with schoolbooks not far behind her — took Ishmael’s hand and stepped into a new beginning. The world stretched out before them, full of hope, promise, and the kind of love that settles deep and lasts a lifetime.
Before Galveston, before the garden rows and fuller days, there was Mulberry Street in Kokomo. It was in that little house where Virginia and Ishmael first began to build a home of their own... The walls echoed with the patter of tiny feet, late-night lullabies, and the gentle hum of a black-and-white television. Their first four children — Mischelle, Rebecca, Katherine, and Ishmael — were all born there, each one adding a little more laughter, a little more love — and a lot more laundry. These were the tender, trying, golden days — stitched with modest joys and captured in the soft sepia of family snapshots.
In Galveston, the days stretched longer, the house grew fuller, and the garden outside wasn’t the only thing blooming. Within those walls, Virginia raised babies, folded laundry, sang lullabies, and built the kind of life that lingers in the heart long after it’s gone.
The old gray house on Strawtown Pike was more than just wood and windows—it was a world of its own. Tucked out in the country near Peru, Indiana, it held the laughter, footsteps, and everyday stories of a family that filled it to the brim. With ten children under one roof, there was never a dull moment, and every room had a rhythm all its own. There were bay windows to peer out of, a garden to tend, a clothesline always full, and the sweet scent of lilacs and roses near the road. From the pass-through kitchen cabinet to the crabapple tree near the porch, it was a place stitched together with hard work, noise, and love.
“The roots we grow in the quiet corners of childhood are the ones that hold us forever.”
In the years after Strawtown Pike, life shifted and settled in new ways. The road led from Kokomo to Kentucky, then back to Indiana—sometimes steady, sometimes with a detour or two. Through it all, Momma kept moving forward, carving out a quiet strength in the places she called home.
In the quiet days that followed, the house settled. Time slowed. The stitches grew softer, smaller. Though no obituary ever graced the paper, her story was already written—in every hug, every laugh, every photo, and every bit of love she left behind.
This is how we remember her: hand in hand with Dad, love still glowing, even as the road gently curved out of sight.
Virginia (Ginger) Eileen (Simmons–Doan) Rogers, 80, passed away peacefully on February 11, 2022. She was born February 5, 1942, in Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana, to Mary Alice (Harris) Doan and Clifton Earl Simmons.
Virginia married Ishmael E. Rogers on August 6, 1958, in Kokomo, Indiana. Together they built a life grounded in faith, hard work, and unconditional love. She found joy in quilting, reading, and bargain hunting, but her heart was most at home surrounded by family. Her children and grandchildren were her greatest treasures.
She is survived by her devoted husband of 63 years, Ishmael Rogers, and their children: Mischelle (John) Pulver, Rebecca Miller, Katherine (Robert) Melanson, Ishmael E. Rogers, Nathan E. (Johanna) Rogers, Michael T. Rogers, Amy (Roger) Ramsey, Eugenia “Jean” (Jeffrey) Chandler, and Jody Rogers; her sister, Pamela (Doan) Cloar; and her many cherished grandchildren: Jeremey Miller, Shane (Kathy) Miller, Elizabeth (Jess) Pollard, Nicholas (Stacy) Pulver, Kayla (Ryan) Surbey, Robert A. (Michelle Lewicki) Melanson, Kimberly (Troy Moore) Melanson, Jared Rogers, Jennifer (Elijah) Gibson, Tyler (Kendra Trent) Rogers, Amanda (Drew) Jameson, Emily (Nelson) Ramos, Sarah (Stephen) Henderson, Ashley Yeung, and Courtney Mathews.
Preceding her in death are her parents Mary Alice (Harris) Doan, Clifton E. Simmons, and stepfather Elmer L. Doan; her brothers Phillip Doan and Gary L. Doan; her daughter Virginia "Mae" (Mark) Detamore; and several beloved grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
“She stitched love into every quilt and laughter into every room. Her road may have ended, but her legacy travels on in every heart she touched.”